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Eunuchs want two per cent of society
EunuchNJ, MAY 26 - India's eunuch community is demanding a two per cent reservation in schools, colleges, hospitals, government offices, etc. and insist on a ‘dharamshala’.

Transgender communities have existed in most parts of the world with their own local identities, customs and rituals. They are called baklas in the Philippines, berdaches among American Indian tribes, serrers in Africa and hijras, jogappas, jogtas, shiv-shaktis and aravanis in South Asia.

The hijra community in India, which has a recorded history of more than 4,000 years, was considered to have special powers because of its third-gender status. It was part of a well-established `eunuch culture' in many societies, especially in West Asia, and its members held sanctioned positions in royal courts.

Over the years, things have changed in for the Hijras - Eunuchs in India.

“We are the unwanted part of the society. We don't have social life but if we are allowed to vote and pay taxes then why aren't our basic necessities satisfied and why can't we have a dharamshala?" questions Ragini Naik, 'guru' of the All Maharashtra Hijra Samaj Sena Sangh (AMHSSS), Mumbai.

The Indian eunuchs complain that though there are shelters for underprivileged children, women and senior citizens but eunuchs are neglected and kept outside the society. They are neither allowed in the social activities (places of worship, workplaces, entertainment avenues) nor are they admitted in educational institutions.

"Apart from the educational institutions or social activities, we have people judging us even as we are walking on the road. We are not even allowed to stay in a residential colony where the 'others' stay. They treat us as if we are born from the dirty 'nallah'. But when it comes to collecting vote and tax, the government decides to include us. In spite of paying tax we are not given the basic facilities," said Gopi Naik, a member of (AMHSSS) Gopi Naik, reported Afternoon of Mumbai.

The eunuchs are demanding a place in society wherein their basic needs can be taken care of, Farid Naik of AMHSSS explained, "When one of us die we don't have the system of informing everybody for the funeral. Our cremation is done secretly. But our guru performs a ceremony, 'pintdaan' as we call upon the people of our community from across the country. For such occasion we need a place where we can get together. Only a place like a dharmashala can help us in all these situations.

India's Hijra Community were lucky enough this time to get the opportunity to get the permission to use the a municipal school ground in Mumbai for our nine-day festival "but we don't know what fate has for us next year," said Gopi.

Farid Naik, a member of the community said there was little enjoyment for them during the festival, "We had few ceremonies where people like us adopt whoever we like or whoever care for us as our sons or daughters."

Naik then broke the conversation, and started dancing on the tune that her friend played on the tabla. Farid said, "For us, entertainment is singing, dancing and playing musical instruments after the ceremony is over. We also had little stalls having selling things that usually our community uses the most." The stalls sold shinny Shalwar-Qameez, Sarees, Shawls, artificial hair, accessories and artificial breasts!


The annual nine-day festival started on May 14 and ended on May 23. Around 5000 eunuchs from all over India came together and shared their views and problems.



Being a Eunuch
By Siddarth Narrain

"Ever since I can remember, I have always identified myself as a woman. I lived in Namakkal, a small town in Tamil Nadu. When I was in the 10th standard I realised that the only way for me to be comfortable was to join the hijra community. It was then that my family found out that I frequently met hijras who lived in the city. One day, when my father was away, my brother, encouraged by my mother, started beating me with a cricket bat. I locked myself in a room to escape from the beatings. My mother and brother then tried to break into the room to beat me up further. Some of my relatives intervened and brought me out of the room. I related my ordeal to an uncle of mine who gave me Rs.50 and asked me to go home. Instead, I took the money and went to live with a group of hijras in Erode."

Hijras in India - file photo

 
* "My name is Sachin and I am 23 years old. As a child I always enjoyed putting make-up like `vibhuti' or `kum kum' and my parents always saw me as a girl. I am male but I only have female feelings. I used to help my mother in all the housework like cooking, washing and cleaning. Over the years I started assuming more of the domestic responsibilities at home. The neighbours started teasing me. They would call out to me and ask: `Why don't you go out and work like a man?' or `Why are you staying at home like a girl?' But I liked being a girl. I felt shy about going out and working. Relatives would also mock and scold me on this score. Every day I would go out of the house to bring water. And as I walked back with the water I would always be teased. I felt very ashamed. I even felt suicidal. How could I live like that? But my parents never protested. They were helpless."

- From the Peoples Union of Civil Liberties (Karnataka) Report on Human Rights Violations Against the Transgender Community, released in September 2003.


More on Hijras

A HijraHijras trace their origins to myths in the Ramayana and the Mahabharata. Rama, while leaving for the forest upon being banished from the kingdom for 14 years, turns around to his followers and asks all the `men and women' to return to the city. Among his followers the hijras alone do not feel bound by this direction and decide to stay with him. Impressed with their devotion, Rama sanctions them the power to confer blessings on people on auspicious occasions like childbirth and marriage, and also at inaugural functions. This set the stage for the custom of badhai in which hijras sing, dance and confer blessings.

The legend in the Mahabharata is that Aravan, the son of Arjuna and Nagakanya, offers to be sacrificed to Goddess Kali to ensure the victory of the Pandavas in the Kurukshetra war. The only condition that he made was to spend the last night of his life in matrimony. Since no woman was willing to marry one who was doomed to be killed, Krishna assumes the form of a beautiful woman called Mohini and marries him. The hijras of Tamil Nadu consider Aravan their progenitor and call themselves aravanis.

The hijra community is divided into seven houses, each headed by a `nayak' who appoints gurus or spiritual leaders to train their wards or `chelas' in badhai and protect them. Hijras in South India do not have the same cultural role as their counterparts in North India and most of them take up sex work as a means of earning a living.

Kothi is a term used to describe male homosexuals who take on the female role; they are largely from a non-English-speaking lower middle-class background. Many kothis marry owing to family pressure but continue to have same sex relationships. There is a symbolic relationship between kothis and hijras, which has been strengthened because of the lack of other support systems for kothis in cities and smaller towns.

For many hijras and kothis, sex work is the only option because no one is willing to employ them because of their gender identity. Even as commercial sex workers, hijras are the most vulnerable group as they are placed right at the bottom of the hierarchy of sex workers. This results in their having little bargaining power and being unable to ensure that their customers practice safe sex. They are also at risk of violence both from customers and the police.

(DesPardes News Report)


 
India's diplomat to New Zealand refuses to return
MAY 16 - Sacked Indian diplomat Harish Dogra is still refusing to return to India and is apparently applying to stay in New Zealand, says media reports. Dogra, whose visitor's visa expired two weeks ago, was reportedly in contact with the immigration department through a lawyer. He was stripped of his post as India's high commissioner after Indians in New Zealand complained about his performance. Dogra caused a diplomatic stir by refusing to go home and remained in his official residence for some days even after a successor arrived in New Zealand.

 
Police take marathon wonder boy for check-up
Budhia SinghMAY 6 - Orissa state police have taken Budhia Singh, the four-year-old wonder boy famed for his marathon runs, for a medical check-up despite his coach, Mr Biranchi Das's protest. The women and child welfare department in the state has accused Das of exploiting his ward for pecuniary gain. Budhia last week got a place in the Limca Book of Records, the Indian equivalent of the Guinness Book of Records, by running a distance of 65km non-stop in just seven hours and two minutes.

 
Sachin signs US$40 million contract
MAY 4 - International advertising major Saatchi and Saatchi has secured the marketing rights for Indian cricketer Sachin Tendulkar (caricature) for US$40 million, officials and media said yesterday. Sachin, who has scored a record 35 Test and 39 one-day centuries during a remarkable 16-year career, enjoys fanatical fan following in India and across the cricket world. His 10,469 Test runs put him in fourth place behind West Indian captain Brian Lara and Australians Allan Border and Steve Waugh in the all-time scorers' list.

 
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