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 Enough has been said about men and the common mistakes they make
in bed, leaving their women unsatisfied. Only rarely do we realize
that even women can make those blunders that can turn their men off
in a jiffy. But like men, even they have to learn. These are a few
points that women should bear in mind if they want to keep their men
happy.
1. Lack of knowledge: You do need to know some basic anatomy. There
can be nothing more irritating than having your woman fumble and
giggle about, wondering how your hot spots work. Buy a good sex book
and study it. Once you've got the basic biology figured, combine it
with 'field research' - touching and testing the areas that are
meant to feel good when stimulated - and you're bound to be a better
lover.
2. Expecting them to be mind-readers: Expecting your lover to
second-guess your every desire is rubbish. Just because someone
knows you well and wants to please you, doesn't mean they suddenly
have access to a crystal ball. Plenty of women think their lover
comes equipped with an amazing radar which allows him to know
exactly what she's in the mood for at that exact moment with
absolutely no input from her. Well, you have to speak up if you
don't want to lie back and think of the laundry that needs to be
done.
3. Only seem to like sex at the beginning: The possible reason why
this happens is because monotony and routine makes the activity
boring for both partners, especially women, since it takes more
physical and mental stimulation for them to orgasm. But the
initiative cannot always come from the man. Both of you have to talk
and figure out what interests you both.
Vary just one thing every time you have sex. It might be a different
position. A new room. The lights on or off. You might be dressed,
half-dressed or completely naked. Music on, music off. It's easy! It
takes little imagination but works wonders.
4. Leave it all up to him: Question: What's the difference between
making love to your long-term girlfriend and eating a bowl of
spaghetti? Answer: At least the spaghetti moves!
 Some women think it's not only his job to initiate sex, it's his job
to do all the work during it as well. You need to take some
responsibility in the bedroom instead of expecting him to do
everything while you just lie there. Take the lead by seducing him
occasionally or take control during foreplay. If you want to really
impress him, initiate sex when he least expects it.
5. Too paranoid about the body to enjoy sex: Most men aren't as
fussy about body shape as women think they are. A few extra pounds
(which mean the world to us), add the curves that men find really
sexy. They don't think 'fat' and 'lumpy'. They think soft, warm,
female and voluptuous. If you're getting into bed worried about your
body, it stands to reason your sex life will suffer. Sex is all
about what's happening inside, not outside.
If you're desperately trying to suck your stomach in, you're not
mentally tuning into being turned on. Being a good lover is about
feeling confident. Feel sexy and you'll be it!
• Sex is all about what’s happening inside, not outside. If you’re
desperately trying to suck your stomach in, you’re not mentally
tuning into being turned on
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