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Daring to be different

SHE'S the girl who provoked uncontrollable mirth in General Shaikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum, Crown Prince of Dubai and UAE Minister of Defence, with her question at a Press conference

Nayla Al Khaja"Your Highness," she addressed, "ever since I moved into Mirdiff, I've lost my sleep with the constant drone of aircrafts over my house. Isn't Dubai the only city in the world with an airport right in the middle of its infrastructure? Would a new terminal in Jebel Ali reduce the number of flights passing over my house, and help me sleep better?" Shaikh Mohammed replied indulgently, "Nayla, its easier to move people than airports."

General Shaikh Mohammed never forgot the girl who asked that question. A few occasions later, when he met her at a Ramadan Iftaar party, he made sure he gave this plucky, audacious young girl a patient hearing of her plans for Dubai's future.

All of 25, Nayla Al Khaja has packed her life with an astonishing repertoire of experiences. A poet, journalist, teacher assistant, graphic designer, cinematographer, radio presenter, TV presenter, and one of the two local girls currently pursuing a profession that wouldn't normally be associated with Emirati women. She's studying to be a filmmaker at the York University in Toronto.

"As an 8-year-old, I came across the word 'locomotion' in a Kylie Minogue song. Looking up the dictionary, I realised it meant 'motion'. The concept of motion fascinated me, and even the act of someone washing his hands at the sink would rivet my attention. It would make me wonder how a human being could do just about anything without batteries. I grew close to people and animals, who represent the motion of life, and through them I found an avenue to express myself."

An incident early in life remains frozen in her memory as the moment that shaped her future. "One day, as I was going down the stairs, I suddenly stood still and asked myself what was making me walk. Was someone pushing me to walk, or was it just me? This philosophical thought began growing in me, and became a near obsession. Movement intrigued me."

Even while schooling at Al Ittihad, and later at Shaikha Latifa Pvt School, she wrangled a role in every school play, usually as the protagonist. Challenging herself to excel, she often heard this voice in her head saying, 'You could be anyone you want, as long as you observe people and imitate their gestures.' She would mimic all accents, from a Britisher to a Malayalee, and learnt that enunciation was all about how you moved your tongue.

Soon after, she began writing poems and stories about fictitious people. Reading became a passion, and around the same time, her interest in films started growing. "I would feverishly watch every B/W Hindi film, from Boot Polish to Anarkali, and learnt Urdu through these films. Eventually I graduated into English movies, and theatre."

While learning about the crucial aspect of timing in any theatrical production ("If you stretch a moment it could get boring, if you make it less, you might not get the message across"), she experimented with aspects of lighting through her paintings.

Nayla remembers encapsulating banal acts of people on her canvas. "I would photograph a salesperson placing a diaper carton on the top shelf, a chef cooking, or someone carving something. I'd return home and reproduce them in my artwork. I have loads and loads of such pictures, which my mother dismisses as 'nonsense'."

While every facet of life captivates her, death intrigues Nayla. "How often I've wished I could take a camera into the after-world just to find out what it's all about! How often I've deliberated upon the thought that if you poke a pin into a wall, would it hurt the wall?"

It was this train of thought that ignited her interest in surrealism. With Dali and Miro as her inspiration, the challenge of breaking into reality and doing the impossible excited Nayla. "I would often live other people's experiences. Once, I even donned a salwar kameez, and took a trip down the Creek on an abra, eating channa! Being one of the expatriates on the boat, and listening to them speak fascinated me. I spent just 50 fils for that passage on the boat, but the experiences that I lived were invaluable."

Her love to live other people's lives was also the reason why she assumed a different name while at college, from being Nayla she took on the personality of O'Neill. "I registered under that name, and all my certificates are marked to that name too. I wouldn't respond to anyone who called me Nayla during those three years at Dubai Women's College. Yes, O'Neill is a man's name but it didn't matter to me, it gave me a sense of power to be called O'Neill. Even today, I sign by that name, although I reverted to being Nayla at the York University."

Nayla Al Khaja shakes hand with the RulerThe memory of her entry into Dubai Women's College amuses Nayla. Dreaming to be the best artist in Dubai, Nayla was accepted by the reputed Fine Arts Academy in Dundee, Scotland, a proposal that was immediately shot down by her parents.

They considered her too young and hyper to move away from Dubai, so she was given an ultimatum to either stay at home and do nothing or join the Dubai Women's College. "From Scotland to a women's college, it seemed terribly unfair. But looking back, the DWC was the best thing that happened to me." The Dubai Women's College triggered her passion in filmmaking, from storyboarding to lighting, from animation to post-production.

Taking a little detour from the delineation of her career, Nayla confides, "I gave the head of DWC, Dr. Reed, a hard time. A rebel, and immature, once I even locked myself in the campus radio room. Giddy over my control of the mike, I made all sorts of animal noises on the radio that reverberated through the college. My professors got frantic and tried battering down the door of the studio, but nothing would stop me from jockeying! That day, I was made to write an apology letter to the Supervisor, and say sorry every half hour live on air."

Her juvenile acts, however, didn't prevent her from winning two 'Oscars' for outstanding academic performance at DWC. "No one has that record yet, of getting two 'Oscars'," claims a proud Nayla, while admitting in the same breath that the third year, she wasn't even considered for the award, thanks to her impetuous behaviour.

From Dubai Women's College, she dabbled with journalism for a short while, before being recalled by DWC as a Teacher's Assistant for first year students of graphic design, and Microsoft Excel. She was just 21 then. "That year, the passion I had for teaching was abnormal, it was like standing on a stage, everyone listening to me, getting all the attention I desired, the graphic room was a place pulsating with ideas."

It was during her tenure at the DWC that she had her first amateur/professional experience in filmmaking. Heading a team of Emirati students, she produced a 20-minute video on how to use the Internet. It was then that she also befriended one of Oprah Winfrey's producers, Julie Peterson, a friendship that Nayla reveres. "It was while producing that series did I realise that I was ordained to be filmmaker."

At the end of the year, she had to give up her teaching assignment, for the most unlikely reason. "When I was called in for a meeting with the head of the College, Dr. Reed, I was confident I was in for a promotion. My mentor, Steve Terney ("the only person who knows me better than anyone else in the world") was with me, and both of us were least prepared for his words - "You are a media person, you belong there, you have so much more to achieve in life. Go." I remember I cried, and pleaded that I wanted to be a professor. I think that was the best reward he could have given me, he let me go, at the right time, as it was meant to be."

All roads, then, led Nayla to the Arabian Radio Network. For a year, she worked as a presenter on its Arabic channel, and a successful one too - a survey ranked her show as second to her boss', amongst 13 other presenters.

"It was like a miracle one after the other, everything was happening right. I got married to Yousuf Al Marri who I met during the filming of the 20-minute video. I got a full time scholarship at York University, and I said to myself, 'This is me, and my dream is coming true.' More confident, and richer by experience, my family was ready to let me go this time."

From a pampered lifestyle in Dubai to coping with living alone in a foreign country, the journey was extremely arduous says Nayla. But, nothing would impel her to exchange her present with anything. "Scripting my own films, shooting experimental films, wearing overalls as part of the crew, going up the ladder changing lights, freezing in the snow while trying to shoot someone in shorts, screening actors, begging people on the streets to act in my films - its all so exhilarating."

Currently in Dubai for her summer break, Nayla has set up the Dessart Productions with her partner Junaid Zaar. Securing a license for a film production outfit wasn't easy she says. "The authorities didn't understand why a UAE woman would want to get into film production. I had to pass through several gates for approval, but I was so convinced about my goal that I refused to give up."

Nayla divulges, while confessing to being possessed with the power of a 12-cylinder engine, "What challenges me is unpredictability. Anything routine will kill me. I can never see myself in a 9 to 5 job!" That's why filmmaking, with all its nuances of unpredictability, is where Nayla sees herself delivering her best. And, with her husband's support, she is confident that she's on the verge of making history in the country.

"It's about time we took on a prominent role, less than 4 per cent locals are currently involved in this field of filmmaking. The budget is there, the location is there, equipment is there, all we need is a good idea, and get ready to put Dubai on everyone's dialect abroad." (Khaleej Times)

 

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