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MAR 22: A German scientist has calculated a formula for a happy
relationship where criticism needs to be cancelled out by five
compliments. Dr Hans-Werner Bierhoff, from the social psychology
department at the Ruhr University Bochum, claims that couples should
ideally compliment their partners five times for each time they
criticise them.
He said:"Then people feel good in their relationship. Goodwill
increases your potential to be happy."
Professor Bierhoff and his colleague Elke Rohmann conducted tests
on thousands of individuals and couples and used the results to write
a book called "What makes love strong" that provides advice on how
relationships can be made to last.
The book also addresses problems that relationships can face as
circumstances change.
He said that unemployment, infidelity or "stressful experiences"
like diseases, depression or child birth can upset the balance and
lead to a break-up. |